German Shepherd puppy whose adoption caused rift between married couple, begins helping heartbroken wife grieve loss of soul dog: ‘It's like reliving Roxy's puppyhood and being given a second opportunity to furnish her with the same amount of love.’

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Laurent Shinar • Writer and Editor
Apr 30, 2026 9:00 AM EDT

This is one of those times when helping can almost instantly turn into hurting, but thankfully it turned right back into helping almost instantly. So join us on this journey of grief and getting over it.

The passing of a dog, especially a soul dog is one of the toughest things that any pawrent is likely to go through. You spend hours and days missing them, their smell, their funny quirks, all the while thinking if there was something you could have done differently to make the life they lived even better than it was. It is enough to make even those of us with the strongest resolve lose our minds.

Which is why when this grieving woman's husband presented her with a puppy she did not take to the gesture all too kindly, especially seeing as the puppy was a pawfect lookalike to her now passed on pupper. And while this similarity initially crushed her, and made her miss her doggo even more than before, it was also this introduction that helped her begin the healing process and move past the loss of her canine love. Showing how sometimes you must walk through the fire and the flames to come out the other side. 
 

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    "I decided to go with 'Althea' which means "healing" and I think it's the perfect name for her."
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    My German Shepherd dog (Roxy) recently passed away at 11 years old. Towards the end I was carrying her from room to room and one morning I woke up to find that she had passed away during her
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    sleep. Even though I knew that she was getting old and eventually she would de, her d th hit me extremely hard. I cried for days and d. on took over my life. I still worked, went to the
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    gym, etc., but I sometimes would forget to eat or shower in the morning and my husband would make sure to remind me. I became visibly skinnier but I still
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  • Wowza, that is some proper doggo dedication right there. An outward appreciation of all the support and love that her dog had given her throughout their many years together. We cannot imagine what it is like to lose a dog like that, a soul who you simply would not give up on. A soul who you would not leave behind no matter their physical condition. It must break a person deep inside to experience such a loss. But the intensity of these emotions stand to honor the memory of the beloved doggo who has passed. So while they might be a lot, they are only relative to the importance of the pupper who has passed on.
     

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    managed to show myself as happy and full of life when I went out with my friends or just went out in general. They did ask me if I was okay because I had just lost my dog but I would always put a
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    smile on and reply with "I'm okay because I know she's up in dog heaven" or something similar. Only my husband saw my depressive side and he was
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    concerned all the time and tried to cheer me up by using his great sense of humor, one of the best qualities about him. He even brought over a 7 week old German Shepherd puppy
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    (who looked exactly like how Roxy did when she was 2 months old) from one of his friends whose female dog had given birth 7 weeks ago and he must have seen the
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    joy on my face when I played and cuddled with the puppy. Roxy passed away 3 weeks ago and the visit from the puppy was 1.5 weeks ago.
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    4 days ago I went on a 2 day work trip. When I returned home, I was greeted by the same puppy that my husband had brought 8 days ago. My husband came to me with a huge smile on his
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    face and asked how was my trip and everything. All I could focus on was the puppy and I asked him what was the puppy doing here? He smiled even more and said that he saw how
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  • Oh man, talk about the graveyard of good intentions. This husband, while acting out of kindness and consideration has jumped to a conclusion that is not going to sit all too well with his wife. You could say that moving on from a passed pupper is not too dissimilar to how long you wait after a breakup to start dating again. Which would mean a wait of at least a month, and even then any dog who comes this woman’s way could well be a rebound anyway. Luckily this man seems to have been guided by a higher power in his choice of puppy to present to his grieving wife, but still the risk he took was unreasonable. 
     

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    much I loved the puppy so he bought her for $5,600 at a discount from his friend as a present to me. I immediately asked him "Why would you do this? You know
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    I'm not over Roxy, but you wanted to bring another puppy like Roxy can just be replaced like that??" And I went to the bedroom and slammed the door and burst into tears.
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    The puppy had followed me but I had closed the door before she could come in and she was scratching the door. My husband told me that he was sorry but he thought this is what I wanted.
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    I yelled at him that he should have asked me first and to just leave me alone. I know that his intentions were good and he wanted me to be happy, but
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    I loved Roxy like she was my daughter. I've had her since I was in high school and she's been my rock and support throughout every hardship. She was also my protector who saved me from
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    possible dangers, specifically from men. Even though she was a female dog, she was still very frightening when in attack mode and her protection work was top-notch.
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    I was still grieving and wasn't ready to connect with another dog. The next day I told my husband that I was sorry for my breakdown and that I was just still going through the grieving process. He forgave
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    me, but he is still visibly upset at me. I wanted him to return the puppy but I feel so guilty for yelling at him and that he spent so much money that I decided to keep the puppy.
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    Update So I kept the puppy, but not out of guilt. Someone mentioned that the same thing happened to them but the new puppy was able to help them through the grieving process and
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    that's exactly what is happening. The new puppy has brought me so much joy and love over the past few days and because she looks exactly like Roxy did when she was the same age, it's like reliving Roxy's puppyhood and
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    being given a second opportunity to furnish her with the same amount of love. I wanted to name her Roxy but I decided to go with 'Althea' which means "healing" and I think it's the
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    perfect name for her. I have apologized to my husband again for yelling at him and reacting the way I did when he meant well. He said that he understood that I was grieving and that dogs can't be
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    replaced like cars, that he should have consulted with me first before bringing in a live puppy that requires a colossal amount of care.
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